I think we are a more feminised society: more nuanced, striving to be fairer, more emotive. Some people see that as feeding a victim cult, but I call it using your emotional intelligence as well as your brawn and your brain. More humane. You can call it niceness, but war is ultimately self-immolatory and the costs are huge – negotiation and discussion and diplomacy are the smarter, less resource-wasteful option.
I think humans are more than warring armies, slavers, macho dick wavers.
I’m proud to be nice. And I appear to be doing all right. I think we all are. Niceness rules, stick with it, it’s the future.
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]]>Phil, you say “what if the West was challenged by a populous and technologically advanced society that was prepared to be more hard-hearted than we are?”
I would replace “what if” with “when”.
Throughout history, every time we have let our defences run down, we have regretted it. As you say “Si vis pacem, para bellum.”
]]>The Romans did have games like that, as a preamble to gladiatorial shows – fights between midgets and enormously fat people, for instance. The difference is that they meant them as slapstick comedy and we use them as a means of feeling good about ourselves.
I think what’s at issue here isn’t niceness so much as hypocrisy. Also technology: we have the media to bring us detailed news of all the bloodshed we require and to do so in ways that catch our attention. We don’t have to turn up at the local coliseum to see slaughter.
“A Roman would say si vis pacem, para bellum  if you want peace, prepare for war “…preparatory to a land grab in foreign parts. Some things don’t change at all.
]]>I don’t think that modern civilisation is inferior to the Romans, but I disagree with your comment “Yes, the Romans might well have found sporting contests for the disabled bizarre. To me, this suggests that modern Western society is vastly superior to the Romans.” What’s wrong with this comment is it takes modern Western values as a given and then finds other societies wanting.
If you take a society’s values as a given, then by those values, that society is very likely to come out well — for example, the Romans could say “we’re superior because we’re hard as nails and you’re soft as shit. QED.”
So, how do we decide what makes a society inferior or superior? I can think of two criteria (1) how happy and fulfilled people are in that society, and (2) whether that society has what it takes to survive and prevail.
Regarding the first criterion, I think the West is the best contemporary society — but then I would think that, I’m a Westerner, and therefore I’ve been indoctrinated from birth (mostly subconsciously) to believe in Western values. I’m not sure that people today are fundamentally any happier than they were wehen we were all hunter-gatherers. (though they do of course live longer).
By the second criterion, the West clearly is a very successful society, by far the most successful in the world today. But what if the West was challenged by a populous and technologically advanced society that was prepared to be more hard-hearted than we are? For example China. It’s not obvious to me that the West will still be on top in 2050 or 2075.
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